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Good words for men

Hi all, I keep receiving positive messages for women but not for men. So I thought for writing them myself. Feel free to share them.

He changes his habits,

He shares his home,

He even leaves his family,

To help you move in with him,

He builds a home for you, but does not ask you to share the cost,

He takes risks and puts in extra effort in work to earn more for you,

He gives his name to your kids and spends most of his earnings for them.

He single handedly takes responsibilities of the family, he never complains about not having time for himself.

He dedicates the best days of his life to serve to your wishes.

Till the day he dies, he slogs day and night to give you a comfortable life... everything he does, (Earning for your needs, ATM for you and kids, being a free body guard to protect you, being your driver to take you on joy ride, paying for the house, bearing the EMI's, paying your shopping bills, taking care of you and your parents too, bringing up your children, earning, advising you, ensuring you can be relaxed, maintaining all family relations, everything that benefit you.....

He tries to give the best to you, he take you to vacation so that your kids and you have good time, All these at the cost of his own health , hobbies, looks and even life too.

The wrinkles on his face and graying hair show the marks of the struggle he went through, just to provide comfort to you and for meeting your reasonable and unreasonable demands.

so who is really doing whom a favour?

Dear women appreciate the men in your lives always, coz it is not easy to be a man.

*Being a man has a heavy price and having a man who loves you is priceless *

Happy men's week. pass this to every man in your contact to make him feel proud of himself.

Rock the world guys. A salute to all the men & boys..

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I look around and wonder why do people look at a married man differently?

He might look better dressed, maybe carrying his kid or the shopping bag of his wife. But he's still a boy at heart,.

Being married and kids don't make him a man.

He may be still learning how to run a home along with office responsibilities.

He still might be struggling in taking care of not just himself but two and more people,

He might not always like to hear 'what does your wife do'...

Marriage doesn't suddenly turn a boy into a man.

For that matter having kids doesn't necessarily do the same either.

Celebrate who he really is, celebrate the child in him, he may be anyone around you, ur friend, ur brother, ur father, a total stranger.

He's not supposed to be responsible for innumerous things, countless rules, it's just his desire for perfection that he does what he does.

This is for every wonderful man I know. Grow up... but take your own sweet time & let the li'l boy in you live forever. And for all my female friends... cherish him, spoil him and most importantly let him be...

He wasn't born to take care of you. He is human. He is not supposed to be an ATM for your expenses, not a free bodyguard to protect you, not a housing board that pays EMI and rent for your stay. It's his lovely heart that makes him do so.

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A heart touching message..... by a Man..."

Somebody asked him.......

Are you a business-man ??

He replied : I am a service man.

I am at service 24 hours a day.....

I'm an employee,

I'm a "Dad",

I'm a husband,

I'm a brother,

I'm a son,

I'm a son-in-law.....

I'm an ATM machine,

I'm a plumber,

I'm an electrician,

I'm a Teacher,

I'm a waiter,

I'm a driver,

I'm a guide,

I'm a handyman,

I'm a Security officer,

I'm a Counselor,

I'm a comforter,

I don't get holidays,

I'm continuously at service of either office or family...

I work day and night to give the

best to my family.....

Keep my needs secondary and home on top....

I pay 80% tax to government but 0% budget is allotted for me.

I helped make 50 laws to protect women, but 0 laws to protect me

I'm on call...... all hours either for office or wife & children but get paid with a sentence.....

"what do you do all day, just sit in office & come home for dinner"

Dedicated to all men, their efforts are never appreciated....

Pass it to all

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The regressive thinking, money seeking greedy people….

On getting proposal for arranged marriage the family of boy went to girls home. After the initial introduction both were left alone to have a talk and know each other.

The girl initiated conversation and asked the boy if he expected dowry he said no. The girl than asked about his qualification and if he owned his house and car, she also inquired if he had any investments in property etc. She than questioned him on his present job & future career plans. The boy calmly answered all her questions.

She then said if he wanted to ask anything.

The boy said he did not want to know about her as he had already made up his mind not to marry her. As more than him she seemed to be interested in his money, car, investments etc.

He said he wanted a life partner who would treat him like a friend a human. Not someone who treats him like ATM or investment.

He questioned why to marry girl who marries for money, they are worse than leeches, as the leeches just suck blood once than leave. But girls like her suck blood till the man dies.

They always choose men with higher income & status than themselves so that they can use the man as a ladder to upgrade their social status.

The worse part being, there are laws to prevent boys taking dowry but no law to prevent reverse dowry that girl takes when they marry for money and soon demand divorce with huge alimony or make the man a life time legal slave for paying maintenance to her with nothing in return.

If a girls don’t consider marriage as choosing life partner but as opportunity of choosing an ATM that can dispense most cash.

I'd rather be single than to be someone's ATM or slave!

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One day a husband informed his wife that he had saved money and planned to buy a house in name of his parents.

The wife got very angry saying if he wanted to buy a house than why not on her name??

So he reminded her the first day of their marriage, when they agreed not to open the door for ANY visitor..

when the husband’s parents came to see them, and knocked on the door..

No one opened the door, so his parents left..

After a while, the same day, the wife’s parents came visiting..

Wife and husband looked at each other, and even though they had an agreement, the wife opened the door..

Husband said by that experience he realised she won't take care of his parents like her parents so if something happened to him... he can't expect her to allow his parents to stay in his house

The wife realised that she had wrong attitude towards husbands parents.

The husband further said that old parents get abused mostly by their daughters in law & daughters. In fact more than 75% of elderly abuse is done by daughters in law & Daughters! http://www.thehindu.com/news/cities/Thiruvananthapuram/daughtersinlaw-abuse-elderly-more-says-helpage-india-study/article4817075.ece

In many cases women force husband to get separated from parents by emotional blackmail or threatning to file fake 498a, Dowry or Domestic violence cases on the family, This has lead to creation of old age homes.

Daughters only talk of loving their parents. But when time comes to pay for expenses of parents not even 1% come forward. Even ten daughters can't be as good as one son.

Still sons rarely talk of how much they love their parents, but silently look after them as much as they can, barring a few exceptions.

These son's have made India proud by making India worlds top country where children take care of parents.

A Happy Son Week to all for making India best country for parents. We will make it better.

Forward it to all the son's & parents who are lucky enough to be with each other. Also to those who are not so lucky…

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Why Men are special… (Read this completely)

Husband gets ready for office, eats breakfast prepared by maid while wife gets up from sleep

Maid gets children ready for school.

Husband leaves for office after giving envelope of the maid's monthly salary to wife.

He uses public transport, travels uncomfortably to save on fuel cost.

Slogs at office, bears the pressure of Boss with smile. Tries to encourage the non performing reporties to perform.

Pays for Life Insurance so that when he dies, his wife & kids do not have financial trouble.

He saves money for Kids education so that they do not face any problem in future education.

Calls up parents to check if they are fine and need his presence or any other help.

Doesn't go for watching match in stadium with colleagues to save money as their is not much left from salary after paying for the family bill and house rent.

Works extra hours in office so he can provide more for his family.

While returning home from a hard days work he buys groceries, fruits, vegetables.

Near home he goes to laundry to pay their bills.

Reaches home greets his wife who is watching TV. Wife informs that she watched TV during day, went for shopping in evening, after coming home she also inquired with kid about study, so she got very tired and as as the maid left early the dinner was not ready . Husband says no worry they could all go out to eat.

Wife turns off the TV and announces. “Ok I will get ready.”

And she does… without another thought.

Anything Extraordinary Here?

These are the phenomenal men as always… Put others first and never mind being treated more as ATM than human

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